1. Coaches Can't Always Reply — Even If They're Interested
During dead periods, or before specific contact dates (especially in D1), coaches may be prohibited from replying, even to a great message.
Parents think "no reply = not interested" — but that’s often not true.
2. NCAA Eligibility ≠ Admissions Eligibility
Being “cleared” by the NCAA Eligibility Center doesn’t mean your athlete can get into the school. Academic standards may be higher.
Ask: “What’s your average admitted GPA and SAT/ACT?”
3. Unofficial Visits Can Happen Much Earlier Than You Think
Athletes can take unofficial visits at any age — including tours, attending games, or meeting the team (without coach-hosted interaction).
These early visits can shape recruiting impressions long before official contact starts.
4. Many College Programs Don’t Max Out Their Scholarships
Especially in equivalency sports, schools rarely use the full allowed number of scholarships due to budget limits.
A D1 program can offer 12 full rides in softball, but many only fund 6–8.
5. Division II & III Offer Amazing Academic Aid — But You Have to Ask
Many parents skip D2 and D3, thinking “no athletic money = no money.” But academic + need-based aid at D3s can rival D1 packages.
Ask: “What’s your average aid package for recruited athletes?”
6. Preferred Walk-On Doesn’t Mean You’re Just Like Everyone Else
PWOs often get roster spots and real playing chances, but no aid — yet may be higher on the coach’s list than scholarship athletes in other years.
Clarify: “Where do I fall on your depth chart?”
7. Coaches Notice Your Parent Behavior
They pay attention to how involved, pushy, or respectful parents are — especially at showcases and during emails.
Helicopter parenting or “dad emails” can quietly hurt recruiting momentum.
8. Athletic Scholarships Are One-Year Contracts
Unlike academic awards, athletic scholarships are renewable annually, and can be reduced or revoked.
Ask about renewal history and what happens if there’s a coaching change.
9. Video Can Be Watched in Under 30 Seconds
Coaches often don’t watch full highlight reels. If the first 30 seconds don’t show them what they want, they move on.
Prioritize: 1–3 game-changing plays up front, clear contact info, and position-specific footage.
10. The NCAA Transfer Portal Is Changing the Game
Older athletes entering the portal create fewer roster spots for high school recruits.
Coaches may prioritize transfers over freshmen, especially at D1.
✅ Bonus: What to Ask That Most Parents Don’t
“How many players at my position are on your roster — and how many are graduating?”
“What do your top 3 recruits look like this year?”
“Do you support summer training, team travel, or showcase attendance financially?”
“If my athlete gets injured, what happens to their scholarship or roster spot?”
1. Coaches Can't Always Reply — Even If They're Interested
During dead periods, or before specific contact dates (especially in D1), coaches may be prohibited from replying, even to a great message.
Parents think "no reply = not interested" — but that’s often not true.
2. NCAA Eligibility ≠ Admissions Eligibility
Being “cleared” by the NCAA Eligibility Center doesn’t mean your athlete can get into the school. Academic standards may be higher.
Ask: “What’s your average admitted GPA and SAT/ACT?”
3. Unofficial Visits Can Happen Much Earlier Than You Think
Athletes can take unofficial visits at any age — including tours, attending games, or meeting the team (without coach-hosted interaction).
These early visits can shape recruiting impressions long before official contact starts.
4. Many College Programs Don’t Max Out Their Scholarships
Especially in equivalency sports, schools rarely use the full allowed number of scholarships due to budget limits.
A D1 program can offer 12 full rides in softball, but many only fund 6–8.
5. Division II & III Offer Amazing Academic Aid — But You Have to Ask
Many parents skip D2 and D3, thinking “no athletic money = no money.” But academic + need-based aid at D3s can rival D1 packages.
Ask: “What’s your average aid package for recruited athletes?”
6. Preferred Walk-On Doesn’t Mean You’re Just Like Everyone Else
PWOs often get roster spots and real playing chances, but no aid — yet may be higher on the coach’s list than scholarship athletes in other years.
Clarify: “Where do I fall on your depth chart?”
7. Coaches Notice Your Parent Behavior
They pay attention to how involved, pushy, or respectful parents are — especially at showcases and during emails.
Helicopter parenting or “dad emails” can quietly hurt recruiting momentum.
8. Athletic Scholarships Are One-Year Contracts
Unlike academic awards, athletic scholarships are renewable annually, and can be reduced or revoked.
Ask about renewal history and what happens if there’s a coaching change.
9. Video Can Be Watched in Under 30 Seconds
Coaches often don’t watch full highlight reels. If the first 30 seconds don’t show them what they want, they move on.
Prioritize: 1–3 game-changing plays up front, clear contact info, and position-specific footage.
10. The NCAA Transfer Portal Is Changing the Game
Older athletes entering the portal create fewer roster spots for high school recruits.
Coaches may prioritize transfers over freshmen, especially at D1.
✅ Bonus: What to Ask That Most Parents Don’t
“How many players at my position are on your roster — and how many are graduating?”
“What do your top 3 recruits look like this year?”
“Do you support summer training, team travel, or showcase attendance financially?”
“If my athlete gets injured, what happens to their scholarship or roster spot?”
1. Coaches Can't Always Reply — Even If They're Interested
During dead periods, or before specific contact dates (especially in D1), coaches may be prohibited from replying, even to a great message.
Parents think "no reply = not interested" — but that’s often not true.
2. NCAA Eligibility ≠ Admissions Eligibility
Being “cleared” by the NCAA Eligibility Center doesn’t mean your athlete can get into the school. Academic standards may be higher.
Ask: “What’s your average admitted GPA and SAT/ACT?”
3. Unofficial Visits Can Happen Much Earlier Than You Think
Athletes can take unofficial visits at any age — including tours, attending games, or meeting the team (without coach-hosted interaction).
These early visits can shape recruiting impressions long before official contact starts.
4. Many College Programs Don’t Max Out Their Scholarships
Especially in equivalency sports, schools rarely use the full allowed number of scholarships due to budget limits.
A D1 program can offer 12 full rides in softball, but many only fund 6–8.
5. Division II & III Offer Amazing Academic Aid — But You Have to Ask
Many parents skip D2 and D3, thinking “no athletic money = no money.” But academic + need-based aid at D3s can rival D1 packages.
Ask: “What’s your average aid package for recruited athletes?”
6. Preferred Walk-On Doesn’t Mean You’re Just Like Everyone Else
PWOs often get roster spots and real playing chances, but no aid — yet may be higher on the coach’s list than scholarship athletes in other years.
Clarify: “Where do I fall on your depth chart?”
7. Coaches Notice Your Parent Behavior
They pay attention to how involved, pushy, or respectful parents are — especially at showcases and during emails.
Helicopter parenting or “dad emails” can quietly hurt recruiting momentum.
8. Athletic Scholarships Are One-Year Contracts
Unlike academic awards, athletic scholarships are renewable annually, and can be reduced or revoked.
Ask about renewal history and what happens if there’s a coaching change.
9. Video Can Be Watched in Under 30 Seconds
Coaches often don’t watch full highlight reels. If the first 30 seconds don’t show them what they want, they move on.
Prioritize: 1–3 game-changing plays up front, clear contact info, and position-specific footage.
10. The NCAA Transfer Portal Is Changing the Game
Older athletes entering the portal create fewer roster spots for high school recruits.
Coaches may prioritize transfers over freshmen, especially at D1.
✅ Bonus: What to Ask That Most Parents Don’t
“How many players at my position are on your roster — and how many are graduating?”
“What do your top 3 recruits look like this year?”
“Do you support summer training, team travel, or showcase attendance financially?”
“If my athlete gets injured, what happens to their scholarship or roster spot?”
